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I'm going through this at my university. Our department is mostly female, and the infantilization is beyond my comprehension. Recently a gaggle complained to the director that they 'felt belittled' in my class because I hinted that perhaps other (marginalized!) students could speak too. One has a thick accent, and in asking her to repeat herself several times, I offered that it was the accent -- this is an ESL writing course, and normally I can understand the most convoluted things, but this accent really threw me.

Anyway, they complained, and their FEELINGS were taken far too seriously. I was advised to NOT CHALLENGE them. Making them feel CHALLENGED makes them "anxious and uncomfortable" and despite the fact that the students are in the course to improve their English language skills, I am not to mention an accent that everyone can hear either...also, I'm apparently the only professor ever who was advised not to tell the students that I'm a writer, (teaching a writing class) because that can make them feel intimidated.

I felt like I was on a different planet.

During the racial hysteria of 2021, I was called a "racist" for not exempting a student from my writing course based on objective analysis of her writing samples. While trying to explain this to her, she started screaming at me -- which was fine with HR because FEELINGS. She then ran to HR to complain. I had also steel manned a feminist work of art, and critiqued it. The critique made me a 'racist.'

In exiting the meeting with HR, I was advised to find witnesses to support that I am not a "racist." When I asked what evidence the student supplied that I am one (it was all appeals to emotion) the HR biddy replied: She doesn't have to provide evidence. All that matters is the way you made her feel.

I've been toying with responding to the director with that statement saying, So the students feel 'anxious and uncomfortable' because I'm doing run of the mill classroom management, yet I'm not going to feel "anxious and uncomfortable" in an institution where anyone's feelings can trump not only my feelings, but the evidence to support that I was just doing my job.

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Great article, Bo

"Women have excelled in domains of care and cohesion, tempering the male proclivity for violence and conflict. But they have not created autonomous truth-seeking institutions."

Exactly. Key point. Humanity has advanced precisely because of the melding of the two differing approaches to human interactions. A strong functioning society requires the appropriate approach to the situation at hand. It takes two to tango, and I don't mean just reproductively.

"56% of men said that students should not be protected from controversial ideas, whereas 64% of women said they should."

That is a sad state of affairs. The number for men should be at least 75%.

"I do not believe women will destroy the West nor that cancel culture is simply what happens when women gain power."

I am not as sanguine. If the loss of balance continues long enough, Western Civilization will suffer greatly.

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