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Cathy Reisenwitz's avatar

It's really unfortunate that one word, Autistic, is supposed to usefully describe someone like Elon Musk and a non-verbal, extremely low-IQ, severely disabled person.

That difference is why, in terms of studies, most of them are useless-to-misleading when it comes to non-disabled people with Autism.

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Esme Fae's avatar

I get rather annoyed with the "autism is a superpower!" people. Having a few autistic traits, such as an extremely single-minded ability to focus, is probably an advantage in some fields. But having enough autistic traits to merit an actual clinical diagnosis of autism (vs. a TikTok diagnosis based on criteria such as "am awkward in social situations" and "don't like loud places") is absolute NOT an advantage.

My eldest daughter's IQ places her in the gifted range; and she is also autistic. She has always excelled academically, but the non-academic demands of school, college, and grad school were debilitating to her. Social dynamics are baffling and stressful for her; her executive functions are somewhat impaired which makes time management and organization a struggle; and normal things like living in a dorm, having a roommate, and doing clinical practicum rotations that changed every few weeks took an incredible toll on her, resulting in severe anxiety and constant panic attacks. The all-or-nothing black-and-white thinking that autistics are prone to leaves her prone to depression - if she can't do something perfectly, she think she is a complete failure. She has a great therapist, and works hard to manage her mental health, but it is heartbreaking to see her struggle so much with basic life things.

Autism makes her life a lot more difficult; we call it "playing life in hard mode." I think she'd give anything to be less autistic, even if it meant a lower IQ.

The highly-successful autists out there are successful despite their autism, not because of it.

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